Have you ever had friends that you have met along the way and watched their lives unfold, they marry, have kids and thru the years you lose track? I had so many friends that reached out to me after Perry got killed, some I met and some I haven't. I used to have a facebook account but I retired it about three years ago :-P, after that I lost track of peoples lives and people lost track of mine. Being a young widow makes people watch you, people wonder where your life will go, and if you will ever re-marry, there is nothing wrong with that although it is hard to be the widow that people are watching!
Dathan and I have been married now for almost three years, and I can say that there is no one that I could have married that would have been a better husband, step-dad, friend, in-law, christian leader of our home than Dathan has. Dathan loves Tanner unconditionally and treats him just like he were his own flesh and blood, he always has Tanner's best interest in mind! Dathan has been more than a husband to me, he is my best friend, a shoulder to cry on, a spiritual teacher, a rock I can lean on! He has let me cry on his shoulder because I was grieving and hurting, marrying a widow is not a walk in the park, and it takes someone very special to do it.
My "Warren In-laws" love Dathan very much and think he is a wonderful guy, we have a great relationship with them. Them watching me get married again was not easy, but they are very happy for me and Tanner, and they are so thankful that we found such a great guy!
